Another bust...apparently.
So, a week after what I thought was a good date and I am actual further back than where I started. I find myself thoroughly befuddled as to what went wrong and examining what it is about myself that can't seem to get beyond this point.
I have attempted face-to-face communication, which only left me MORE confused than when I had started. I have now sent out an email, simply stating that I am interested and that if he is as well, he should let me know in some way.
And now we wait. This appears to be a pattern with me. Am I simply picking the wrong gentlemen to pursue, or is it me? It could very well be the latter.
I have attempted face-to-face communication, which only left me MORE confused than when I had started. I have now sent out an email, simply stating that I am interested and that if he is as well, he should let me know in some way.
And now we wait. This appears to be a pattern with me. Am I simply picking the wrong gentlemen to pursue, or is it me? It could very well be the latter.
posted by LadyVader @ 5:10 PM
7 Comments:
At 10:44 PM ,
Likestrek said...
I was in a similar situation recently. I was encouraged by a friend to confront her about why she hadn't discussed the date after even aftewr I sent her a message saying I had a good time. She only then got back to me and it turned out she did have a good time she was just really busy. My point is, contact him and ask him point blank. It beats you sitting around wonddering what's going on.
At 11:27 PM ,
Kelly said...
It's not you. Men are weird.
At 1:13 PM ,
An Illegal-Size Paper Production said...
I've been wondering the same thing about myself, but with girls, of course. I'm going to level with you, though. It may be you, but you're only part of the equation. I've come to the conclusion that things are usually never just you or totally the other person because if we were to believe in romanticism and falling in love then the person would be doing whatever it took to show you that they're interested instead of playing games and making you wait, etc. Plus, in situations like this, you and I only have ourselves to blame because we have no real idea of what's going on (or not) with the other person and why they just probably not that into us. Thus we are left to overanalyze, feel shitty about ourselves finally frustrated at our failed attempts at something more consistent.
Anyway, in defense of men and in rebuttal to the comments of 'she who must not be named', I've always said that men are stupid and fucked up while women are weirdly emotional and fucked up.
At 1:47 PM ,
Kelly said...
No rebuttal necessary, women are bitches.
Also, "weird" isn't much of an insult coming from me.
At 5:01 PM ,
Likestrek said...
Basically, it comes down to maturity level. I'm highly mature in some areas but, admittedly, not in others. Everybody is like this on some level. The trick is to find compatibility. If someone has figured out how to find that person, please tell me...
At 11:36 PM ,
Anathema said...
Or, he's a freaking coward and doesn't know how to tell you that he's not into you. Because he thinks you are nice and doesn't want to hurt you. It's a thought.
At 8:08 PM ,
Likestrek said...
I should re-iterate here. Don't wait for him to contact you at the risk of your own sanity. On the other hand, if you can go about your day without thinking about what if he thinks this or he thinks that then go ahead but if not...
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