Passive-Aggressive? Yes please.

(Some of this might be directed at you. I'll probably apologize later for how it came out.)

1. It's not like I can't handle change; I deal with change every day at work. This is about people following through on things. So if HUGE plans that have been discussed for well over a year are changing, just say it. Don't drag things out, saying "maybe" and "we'll see." Twice this year I've had major travel plans changed on me: plans I was so looking forward to in my new, free of strings state. No tickets had been purchased yet or anything like that, but the fact remains...people cannot seem to follow through on anything. If you know you're not going to be able to do ANYTHING, for fuck's sake, just say something. This applies to little plans too; if you have to back out of something, inform all other parties ahead of time.

2. I know I'm not the center of anyone's world, but I want to be included in worlds not just when things suck or when people want to gloat at the wonder of everything; could I be included just because? Part of this is my own doing, as I try to always be there for people when they need me, but this is the first time in a long time I've felt genuinely taken advantage of in this regard. The people I am talking about have lives, which I don't, and that's fine. But to come to me in your hour of need, then ignore me the rest of the time, until it's your hour of need again, well that's just inconsiderate. And when people ask for information, no matter how much it suck to give it to them, just do it, okay? Really, they can handle it.

3. I'm officially "the wheel" in all social situations at this point. This is no one's fault but my own. You were all cranky at some point for being "the wheel," so don't treat me like I SHOULDN'T feel somewhat awkward about this.